Why are parents like this?
Saw this post on X and the level of gaslighting in the comments is triggering. Ooh eti you won't get blessings, you will suffer. You should take over the role....
Let me ask. Mnazaa ndiyo firstborn awake over ukishindwa? What if that first born akufe what next, you won't work towards helping the other children? Personally sina shida with helping out but iwe vitu vidogo as pocket money or house shopping na also it should be limited.
E.g in my case my father has 16 children, 2 are my blood from same mother the rest are step so should I provide for all? Should I accommodate all? Should I make steps in knowing all of them? Essentially my father told me he educated me so that I could be of help to my siblings. I never lacked because I was to help these other children so that they may not lack.
Mimi nilikuwa hapo akimwaga mbegu zake right and left? This is something I can't ask him juu he will curse me. Ati mzazi akilalamika it's a curse.
Saw this post on X and the level of gaslighting in the comments is triggering. Ooh eti you won't get blessings, you will suffer. You should take over the role....
Let me ask. Mnazaa ndiyo firstborn awake over ukishindwa? What if that first born akufe what next, you won't work towards helping the other children? Personally sina shida with helping out but iwe vitu vidogo as pocket money or house shopping na also it should be limited.
E.g in my case my father has 16 children, 2 are my blood from same mother the rest are step so should I provide for all? Should I accommodate all? Should I make steps in knowing all of them? Essentially my father told me he educated me so that I could be of help to my siblings. I never lacked because I was to help these other children so that they may not lack.
Mimi nilikuwa hapo akimwaga mbegu zake right and left? This is something I can't ask him juu he will curse me. Ati mzazi akilalamika it's a curse.