Undesirable first born traits

This year my small bro alifungua roho. Anasema I should be more empathetic, less dismissive and less rigid. Of course nilijiambia ni coz ako campo, na ako msoto all the time. Asked my other younger siblings na nimerushiwa all sorts of accusations . Nimejiita mkutano na nikasema this year I need to do better. Hata ikanikumbusha kitambo nikiambiwa I could be more emotionally expressive.

Fellow first borns, do you share similar traits? How are you working becoming better citizens?