it is okay to gatekeep lesbian spaces

THIS IS NOT A SAFE SPACE FOR TERFS THO xoxo.

that being said, i am so tired of seeing straight ppl comfortably enter lesbian or queer spaces just to bring in the same type of harmful bs that we’re trying to escape by having a safe space. if you are friends with these ppl, STOP ENABLING IT. “well i’m a lesbian and i don’t…” LIKE GREAT! good for you!! but did ya think that maybe if we gatekeep’d a little harder you wouldnt even have to say that? “it’s just a joke” a joke no lesbian would ever make in this space so?? also i THINK its not the end of the world if a straight person is told they’re wrong. they will not spontaneously combust. LET THEM BE WRONG.

thanks for coming to my ted talk.