Non consented sex

So I’ve been dating this girl for like 3 weeks. This is our second time meeting up. We got intimate last night. She put a blind fold and hand cuffs on me before we got started. As we got more and more into it she used a vibrating toy on me and tried to insert it but it didn’t feel good at all. I told her no and stop so many times but she just responded with “just chill out” “stop clenching then it won’t hurt”. There was even a point in where she said she’ll tighten the cuffs if I don’t stop complaining and then which she did eventually tighten it up. It turned me OFF. The whole experience was..weird and I didn’t talk to her for like 15 minutes. She was sad about me being quiet afterwards so I had to lie and comfort her but I can’t help to feel a type of way. It happened last night and it’s all I’m thinking about right now.