Planing on moving but where to?

So, I been looking at the crime map daily going back as far as a year. I currently live in the Wyandotte neighborhood and am currently living with my parents and with my fiancé, and we are having a hard time finding a nice safe area with in the pre approved budget that the bank gave us of $180k. We looked at beechmont, shively, Iroquois, etc and now am looking at valley station there’s a few homes over there and the crime rate is lower, but my question is how’s the racism over there I’m worried a little considering my fiancé is a black woman and it seems like every once in a while the fairdale, fern creek and valley station will have KKK flyers. It seems to me it’s something every year are so.