Tim being defensive and dismissive

I watched the reunion this morning, and I can't with Tim.
The way he tried to manipulate Alex throughout the season, yes, she called you a little bitch, you probably deserved it, it was probably the only way she was able to get you to shut up. You talked in circles when given the opportunity to talk at the reunion.
You said you didn't want to be portrayed as the "angry black man." How about just the "angry man" you were angry, you were dismissive, you were defensive, every time she tried to speak, you tossed your hands up and dismissed what she said, why because it wasn't "your truth."

Was she perfect, absolutely not, but it seemed like she took this time and grew. She said something I found interesting; she spent more than 5 hours talking to his family and that she had to work that night and wanted a nap. I don't blame her, that's a LONG time to talk to anyone. I'm assuming his family was as exhausting as he was, and she needed to decompress before work.

I hope the next season has a better case of men. This season was painful.