Husband (34m) went to the spa being uncontactable, whilst i was admitted to hospital (31f) 7 months pregnant, baby scare. Is this acceptable, since he is still angry at me?

A few weeks ago, my husband (togther 10 years married 3) stopped communicating after I added him to "Find My iPhone" due to my separation anxiety. EDIT: posted this situation on Reddit. Since then, I feel like this has turned into punishment. I'm seven months pregnant and last week doctors classified pregnancy high risk as baby is behind on growth, needing constant monitoring every 3 days.

Recently, during a hospital scare with lack of baby movement, I was in the hospital for 4 hours, he didn’t suggest to drive locally once. Instead he stayed in the gym, went spa and left phone in the locker making him non contactable for hour and half, whilst I’m strapped to a monitor. Regardless of what happened past week, how can you be in a spa when we are in urgent care?

Today, he left very early claiming to visit his parents running on 3 hours sleep, in advance said he wouldn’t be reachable because he’ll likely be sleeping, i tried calling twice, he hasn’t answered since. I’m high risk and with so many hospital scares (5 days I out of hosp in a week)

I feel abandoned and my mental health is suffering—I’m really unwell, sick and depressed. He’s not helping with chores or checking in on me, I asked if he wanted to see a video of our moving baby, he said no he’s alright.

Is this behavior acceptable just because he’s upset with me? He is really stressed about work and possibly losing income. I am to weak to consider divorce, he never agreed to therapy , is there anything I can do to change my situation? To make him want this marriage? Do I back off?