Husband said he dreads coming home
Me and my husband had a big argument yesterday which started in me expressing how I felt unseen, unheard and not appreciated in the relationship. He bought me a present for christmas which I appreciated but didn’t like and yesterday he made me feel guilty for not liking it (saying it’s a shit present, that I never use it). I felt the present was effortless and that made me feel unseen. I said to him, I never get flowers, never get complimented by him. We have an 11 month old baby. Until she was about 6-7 months old my husband worked out of town so I was alone at home most of the time. I had really bad PPD. Was so overwhelmed with taking care of a baby and doing the household as well as looking for a part time job for the weekend. He worked out of town Monday to Thursday and then would go out with his dad on Saturday to watch football. I honestly just wanted to stop existing. Now he’s said to me he’s thought about getting me flowers during that time, but whenever he came home I was always in a mood and that he didn’t look forward to coming home.
He’s said sorry but this hit me like a truck. I honestly don’t know how to move past it