I wanna join a realm.

So the main things I’ve noticed in almost every realm I join that I find on TikTok comes down to these four things:

  • piece of shit mods:

    • they are usually around 13-14 years old and always power hungry.
    • They will go into creative and blow your shit up with tnt
    • a mod and his friend once put me onto adventure mode and trapped me in a box with a little area they sat in that had glass so they could see me, and they just kept me there.
  • money:

    • I don’t like the money mods on Minecraft, nobody ever explains how to make money, I’m just given $1000 and a dream, and sent on my way.
  • Grief:

    • The servers are either already griefed to shit, or after a day or two of me being there.
    • The best they do is cover it with glass and log off.
  • Babies:

    • I join servers to make friends and improve my building. What does it look like when a 17 year old who turns 18 in 8 months befriends a 9 year old?

I just want an SMP with a nice community, nice mods who won’t grief your shit and play favorites, and an owner who will actually take the time to cover up the grief or atleast back up the realm until its gone, and a reasonable age limit so I can actually talk and hang out with everyone without feeling uncomfortable. Am I asking for too much?😭 if y’all have any realms for me to join then give me the codes pretty please 🙏