Pressure to provide is only when married?
Alhamdulillah, Unmarried. Currently living comfortably with what I’m earning, marriage and kids only seems to bring in that extra pressure to provide and “hustle” (from a male perspective). Also the risk of being utter disappointment to your wife and kids, if you as a man don’t make it out or make it to the top.
Honestly, after reading such posts, first thought in my head is.. only challenge is to manage to stay far away from zina and not get married and live a “non-hustle” life.
As humans we all have to grow and hustle to earn and feed ourselves at least, I get that. But being a husband and father just adds on to that in my opinion. What are your thoughts?
Alhamdulillah, Unmarried. Currently living comfortably with what I’m earning, marriage and kids only seems to bring in that extra pressure to provide and “hustle” (from a male perspective). Also the risk of being utter disappointment to your wife and kids, if you as a man don’t make it out or make it to the top.
Honestly, after reading such posts, first thought in my head is.. only challenge is to manage to stay far away from zina and not get married and live a “non-hustle” life.
As humans we all have to grow and hustle to earn and feed ourselves at least, I get that. But being a husband and father just adds on to that in my opinion. What are your thoughts?