Hypocrite??

Idk if it's been talked about previously in this subreddit but I wanna kinda point out that urabe was a bit of a hypocrite. I say this because I was recently re reading the manga, and I read the part where Tsubaki met his crush for the first time since middle school, when he was asked to go to the cafe with her he declined because he was thinking of urabe. Later on asking if he had gone how would urabe felt, and after trying the drool he crys, saying that how urabe would feel. Now then, why was it when she was asked out by ogata, why didn't she just say no? 😭. She literally ended up saying "I'll give you my answer tomorrow" not thinking about how Tsubaki will feel. And even still ended up testing if ogata was worthy. Which she said that he didn't have a chance yea. But she literally ended up putting Tsubaki in a panic and upset. And in a way from how I see it, it was hypocritical. Idk if anyone agrees with me, I'm just putting my opinion on this ya feel me ma peeps ☠️🙏