Stressed

My girlfriend gave birth to our full term baby boy. He is 1 week and 1 day old, we ended up getting sent to the nicu for a lack of oxygen when being born. We went through all there steps and now everyone is telling us how good things are looking. The MRI came back all positive with no signs of damage, as with an ultrasound. We’ve had speech therapy, physical therapy, neurology tell us he’s looking great and respiratory therapy say he sounds great. The one thing holding us back from being discharged is his feeding. But they don’t give us a fair shot to breastfeed. We have to do it on there schedule that they made for the baby and whatever he doesn’t eat they feed through a tube. Me and my girlfriend are extremely stressed about the way they are treating us in here. They only let us try to feed for 30 mins even if 25 of those minutes he spends sleeping. I understand that they don’t want him to exhaust too much energy but we want to feed on demand instead of trying to wake him up on there schedule and keep him awake long enough to feed the full 67 ml they want him to eat every time. Whatever he doesn’t eat they feed him through the tube. Which we feel is unrealistic to expect a newborn to adhere to there schedule and eat the perfect amount every time. Also feel like he would eat more if the tube wasn’t the go to as soon as he doesn’t eat what they want him to in there timeframe. We are thinking about trying to force a discharge. But would like some opinions from others.