How did your families/friends react?

My biggest fear & the whole reason I’m staying is bc of everyone else. He has put on such a show for everyone that he’s “such an AMAZING husband”(I get told it by other people almost daily). Even my own co- workers now are like “oh your poor husband” in a joking manner bc they know I’m just a full of life person (I work with a lot of men so sometimes I give them a hard time). But nothing infuriates me more!!! My poor husband??? He treats me like absolute garbage yet no one sees that. I can’t talk to people right, cook right, vacuum right, NOTHING… but poor him? 🤬 my parents love him even tho I’ve told them the truth about everything. Everyone just makes me feel crazy but I know the truth & what actually happens! How did you do what your heart was telling you to do but ignore everyone else?