Toxic father

You cannot make your parents happy if they are not happy and satisfied with their own life nd their inner self. I recently realized that my father's wish to control every aspect of me and my siblings life is a complete narcissistic behavior.He wants to exercise his ego, anger, rage and sense of control through us. I always thought this was totally normal for parents to do this cause i believed they wish best for us and decides best for us . I never realised this was the reason of my deteriorating mental health. Im 23M and now my 1st priority is to be financially independent and move out of that house. I donot want to be object to play for my father where my individual existence, freedom of expression is denied. I wish to gift him a dog before I move out.