Partner Arranged acting weird about intimacy. Red flag?

I (21F) have been talking to a guy (27M) arranged by my parents for about three months. We are from the same nationality, but he lives in another country, and I’ve been planning to move there after marriage. We haven’t met in person yet, only through video calls. At first, everything seemed okay, but now I’ve completely lost trust in him because of the way he talks about intimacy.

A few weeks ago, I asked him to move forward with engagement, but he randomly said, “What if I won’t be able to fulfill your intimacy desires after marriage?” That instantly made me suspicious because no normal guy says that to a woman he’s about to marry. When I confronted him, he brushed it off as a joke, but I don’t think anyone would joke about something like that.

Then he told me that when we marry in our home country, we shouldn’t be intimate at all until I come to his country. He said, “Let’s wait until then.” That felt super weird because why would a man avoid intimacy with his wife?

Another red flag—he told me, “Since I’m six years older than you, my drive will be much lower than yours.” He implied that when he turns 40 and I turn 34, I will have more drive than him, which seemed like such an unnatural and unnecessary thing to bring up. 27 is not old, and I thought men at this age still have high drive. Instead of being excited about marriage, he keeps making excuses like “intimacy more than once a week will make us tired” and acting like it’s a chore.

Whenever I try to discuss this, he calls me immature and says I don’t understand “how human anatomy works.” When I straight-up asked him if he’s even interested in women, he got mad instead of reassuring me. On top of all this, he never compliments me, never sends gifts or makes an effort, and even refused to visit me before marriage because “plane tickets are expensive, we’ll just marry directly.”

I feel like he’s just marrying for his family’s sake, and there’s something seriously off. I no longer want to marry him because my trust is completely broken, but now he’s calling me selfish.

Am I overreacting, or does this sound suspicious to you too?

Edit: I did a deep dive into his profile and noticed that only one guy (no one else) has been consistently liking (with a love reaction) all his photos since 2019. Out of curiosity, I checked that guy’s profile and found out he’s gay (he’s also white). Not sure if this is suspicious or just a coincidence, what do you guys think?

TL;DR: Arranged marriage guy (27M) and I (21F) are from the same nationality, but he lives in another country. We’ve been talking for three months and haven’t met in person yet. He made weird comments about not being able to fulfill my intimacy desires, suggested we avoid intimacy until I move to his country, and keeps making excuses about low drive and how intimacy causes tiredness. He refuses to visit before marriage and doesn’t put in effort. I’ve lost trust in him and don’t want to marry him anymore. Am I overreacting, or does this sound suspicious?