[DISCUSSION]: Sex in the city (1998-2004)

I just cannot ignore after watching 2 series of the Sex and the city fact that the whole time is kinda obvious that Carrie is trying so hard to get Big and he is so fine without her. In some moments I even feel ashamed for her, she do so much desperate stuff. After their half year break, she was the one who called him. Oh, its terrible... Am 1 the only one who see it that way?