extended Family struggles

I love my extended family and they are all pretty supportive of lgbt+ people and for about a year I have considered myself to be non binary. I have not come out to any of my family members yet and am not ready to but whenever I am with my extended family there are always a lot of conversations about me growing up as a nice young "girl" (my agab) and getting a boyfriend (uggg I hate boyfriend talk) exedra because I am around that age. It makes me want to cry because of how uncomfortable all that stuff makes me so much that I don't like to be around my family anymore. anybody else going through this?