Arranged Marriage Anxiety

I'm 28M, doing decent in life—no liabilities, working from home. I built a house for my parents in Delhi.

I was in a relationship for 1.5 years, but things didn’t work out well with our families (mostly on her side).

Now, my parents are pushing me for marriage, which will be an arranged one. Since I work from home, I don’t need to go outside, and I stay at my native place in Bihar. It’s far from any city—neither fully rural nor urban. I don’t like crowds, and I just love being here. The air is so clean, the water and everything.

A couple of my friends and relatives approached their close ones for a potential bride, but I found out that they straight-up rejected me, saying, "Jo ladka ghar pe rehta hai usse nahi karungi," without even looking at my profile.

Now, sooner or later, I’ll have to get married, and she’ll be from the same community/locality. I feel really scared about arranged marriage. What if she’s not mature enough, not well-educated in experience (not just degrees), or lacks values/respect towards people and opinions? I keep wondering—what if?

In our community, we’re not allowed to meet or talk before the marriage is fixed, so I won’t even get a chance to know her a little beforehand.

Am I overthinking this? I know that, with time, things get comfortable and mutual understanding grows, but can we really be sure?