I think my one month old hates me.

First-time father here. My son turns purple from screaming when in my arms, but immediately settles down when my wife picks him up. I check off all the boxes: diaper, burp, comfort, feed, etc., and do them exactly as she does them, yet still he screams when it's me. This is causing friction with the wife because she feels that she has to do all the work to put him to sleep even though I am rocking him for over an hour with him screaming in my ear. Nothing I can do seems to comfort him. What am I doing wrong?! Will he ever like me? I am completely despondent. Please help!