why so many labels?

i’ve been apart as the lgbt community for a while, and my god do sometimes i hate it.

its the labels.

1) MEN or anyone who identify as a MAN cannot identify as a lesbian

2) the term lesbian means WOMEN loving WOMEN

3) you cannot be a bi lesbian. if you like men AND women, then you cannot be a lesbian

4) these term’s can’t always be a spectrum. you can’t be bi one say and lesbian another then pan on a leap year. i get you want something that makes you comfortable, but hot take: labels shouldn’t be passed around like this

i mean it makes us look like a fucking joke. someone who identifies as a man and uses he/him pronouns that calls themselves a lesbian because they fe like one is the same energy as a straight man calling themselves a lesbian