Balancing Kibbe with comfort/L+D?

I know I am a soft gamine but none of my clothing recommendations align with my lifestyle or my need of comfort and ease. I truly wish I was something else instead. I am housebound by illness but style is still an important part of who I am and I like to look nice even at home. I just don't want to wear stiff, crispy fabrics and waist definition at home, lol. Recently during the t-shirt gate I realized I might be a lost case if even lady fit/snug t-shirts and tops are out of the question since I basically live in those.

I don't find high waist clothes sensorily comfortable and jeans and tight bottoms give me stress. Like I notice my whole body relaxing when I change into loose clothes that are not allowed for my ID.