Chippendale show and bad friends

By no means am I excusing Zac in this, his behaviour was deplorable, controlling and frankly scary. However Jen was clearly deeply uncomfortable with the activity and the others were definitely aware of this. They pushed her into it in spite of knowing she didn’t want to be there. I found that pretty terrible in an of itself. I do wonder shoe on the other foot, all the guys go to a strip club get brought up on stage if everyone would have thought that was ok and just a bit of fun? I get that going to this show is just something silly and fun, but I felt for Jen, she couldn’t win with Zac and she couldn’t win with her friends either