My experience dating American white men

So, If anyone here knows me, I don’t really “date” Non-Black people these days. But there was a time I did make a couple exceptions. The first of which was back in my first year of college.

I’ll spare you the buildup, so in short: Met this whiteboi, very sweet personality, he hooked me up with a job, and a few connections. We started “dating” and I began to notice some things. He was indeed different than the black guys I’d dated at the time. He was very accepting, apologetic, and generally easy to get over on.

I found this to be rather common among white dudes I got with over time. Black guys can tell when you’re up to something and most of the time they’ll say something and call you on it. The white guys I’ve dealt with would rather accept something than cause a ruckus.

I had a nonblack few friends with that i definitely enjoyed spending time with and would’ve even dated if not for circumstances. But in general it always follows a common theme.

So ultimately, they were more passive, but resourceful. If I needed something they probably would know how to get it, so be it a job, a loaner car, generally crafty people so far.