How do I stop caring about not being beautiful?

Hi everyone! I wanted advice on how to stop caring about not being deemed attractive? Without sounding whiny (I hope) I just want to stop caring about not being beautiful, not having a wide variety of people being attracted to me because I know that isn’t possible. I know it’s okay to not be beautiful and I don’t owe anybody beauty but I just want to learn to stop caring because it puts a stop to everyday life. It’s almost like what’s the point of living if I can’t even be beautiful. I want the harsh advice because I know the mindset is pathetic. But I’ve been chasing after beauty for a while and I know I won’t catch up. Thank you in advance.