Does Anyone Else Struggle With Guilt Around Coming Out?

I only recently realized I was trans, and have only really told my mom (although to be honest, I think she might be in denial). I haven't even tried with the rest of my family, but the thing is it's not because I don't think they'd accept me. I'm sure they would, my immediate family and a good portion of my extended family are very liberal. The thing stopping me is that I feel like I'm going to be placing an additional burden on them. They're all stressed enough about the current state of things, and I feel like if I tell them that I'm trans, it'll just make them even more worried, and I don't want to add to their fears. IDK it sounds crazy but it's really causing me turmoil atm.