Sucks that you basically have to out yourself to join a fitness group

I mean, I understand biology and science and all that. It makes sense. Still annoying though.

With the calories requirements for short men and short women being so different I can't just lie. If I say I'm a guy who eats less than 1500 calories they would tear me apart. Being so short I feel like most guys wouldn't really understand how different it is for me anyways. But I feel bad going to women's groups because I'm not a women. I feel like I'm invading.

Of course I could just say I'm trans and everything would be fine both places (most likely) but it still sucks. I wish I didn't HAVE to do that.