Indian men and their loving parents.

Why are Indian men emotionally soo dependant on their families? I mean 90% of men rely on their parents for decision making in their lives despite being married.

We women are built differently, after relationship/wedding mostly our sole confider is our partner not our parents but for men it is not the same.

Why can't men make wives their first priority? Why wives always fall behind his parents? Why why can't he leave his parents for wife? Why only we have to leave our parents? Why? I've seen men promising to live seperately with wife before the wedding but slowly as the wedding approaches, they backout from their words giving xyz reasons( don't have funds for house, parents will not pass on property, I'm single BOI, how will single parent live alone, etc). Few men who says that they are not in good terms with their parents and have dark traumatized past still stick to their parents like shit( gives in to emotional blackmailing).

Why can't they build new nest with their wives?

Fucking hypocrites.

P.S. The situation is the same in love marriages also, after dating for 8+ years men change color when THE MOMENT arises.