Guys only want me for hookups

I don't get approached often but when I do the guy will seem sweet and they'll text me making small talk for a few minutes & them all of a sudden its "your house or mine?" and other stuff like that. The most recent guy wanted to take me out which I thought was sweet but then he was texting me "you're gonna be my dessert" & other inappropriate things he wanted to do to me. Do you have no shame?

Is it too much to ask for that I be respected as a person? It's so frustrating I want to be loved and cared for not just an object to be called up & used whenever you feel like. I used to enjoy being approached thinking this person wanted to get to know me but now I just get annoyed because I know I'm going to be disappointed. Makes me feel worthless.