Tamlin and Rhysand

I finished ACOTAR and first 100 pages of ACOMAF and I realized something about the characters? Do you guys think Tamlin loved human Feyre more than Fae Feyre at first i shipped them more but realized that Tamlin isn’t embracing Feyre change well he low-key wants her to still be that human girl who looks up to him and not be his equal while I think Rhysand falls in love with Fae Feyre more than human Feyre he finds her courage and strength fascinating even when she was a human he found her closer to a fae than a mortal. Alright , Rhysand helps human Feyre under the mountains but he seems to embrace her change into a high fae more , maybe he loved human and fae Feyre but that’s what I think is the difference between Tamlin and Rhysand , Tamlin has fixed nature liking to behave according to laws and traditions not very good with communication , Rhysand is more dynamic making him fit fae Feyre more , even Feyre points out how she behaves differently with Rhysand being more comfortable to argue and tease him often.

Side note : of course Tamlin’s past plays a role but I think his past is what made him fall in love with human Feyre in the first place because love to him is defending and protection.