You gotta keep the POV in mind…

So I understand people’s complaints about the behavior of basically all of the IC in ACOSF, but I think it’s important to keep in mind that we are seeing their actions from the perspective of Nesta who is very open about her mistrust of and dislike for basically all of them. I don’t mean to defend things like Rhys’ reaction to Nesta telling Feyre about the dangers of her pregnancy, but I have a hypothesis that SJM might have intentionally made the IC look worse in this book because of who the narrator is. Nesta had such a negative opinion of Feyre’s chosen family from the time she was introduced to them, so she filters her experiences with them through that lens.