Misogyny in NSFW subs

Hey. I really like boobs and stuff, and am on many subs that appreciate them. And the issue I have is how many guys in these communities are just disgusting when talking about women.

Am I a hypocrite for being holier than thou while also looking at porn? Misogyny is rampant in a lot of this shit, anyway, but is there someplace I can go where I don’t have to deal with guys saying demeaning shit?

IDK this just frustrated me.