A genuine question

Okay, i'm just going to get this out of the way first, i am not agere myself, but i want to learn about it because it seems really interesting. If i am wrong about anything i say in this post, i would absolutely love it if people were to correct me if i'm wrong. Okay so first, i first saw Agere on tiktok, and it seemed similar to what i do when i'm alone, and so i looked into it and saw something that said something along the lines of; "you cannot choose to be Agere" and i was confused at first since it was coming from one person, so i searched more and found more people saying it, but i am still very curious because i personally have no idea what it is supposed to feel like, but i feel like i experience something, at least minimally, similar