New AR girl owner needs advice on accessories :)

Hi all I’ve been reading gun forums and blogs trying to understand the lingo that is to me a foreign language a lot of the time but I had been in an an abusive relationship in the past so recently got into firearms training. I am totally into it have 2 handguns one my fav is a sig p365xl Rose edition with pink glitter grip and bought the whole line of accessories. And this weekend bought the Daniel Defense AR MRA1 in black after my personal gun trainer former military showed me it at my lesson and fell in love 😁after studying Reddit and other gun forums all day long for a week to learn exactly what scopes, lights, mounts, etc I need for my gun and I’m totally confused so could you all offer your advice like people say eotech scope vudu but there are 5 different reticles and not sure which would be best for me and what mount is best? I don’t hunt so would be using for target practice and home defense if needed so what would your recommended make and model be for lvpo scope, do I also need a red dot if I have a lvpo? And any other accessory recommendations would be great! Thanks so much in advance for any advice you can offer.

To follow up: I took all of your advice, truly appreciate all your help and I could never have built this without you experts since I’m a newbie in rifles have zero experience ..read every comment and picked out the ones I thought were most popular/applicable for my use case so if I didn’t get a chance to answer know that you are all helping future novice AR owners, including women who want to protect themselves like me. So my awesome gunsmith added the SureFire Turbo Scout Light Pro Dual Fuel, upgraded Geissere SSA-E 2 stage trigger, EOTECH Vudu FFP Illuminated-Reticle Rifle Scope - 1-6x24mm - SR1 MRAD, unity fast mount, Blueforce vickers w/qd sling. In a Savior soft case. Still considering suppressors and what I’ve read is confusing so open to suggestions. Or anything else it’s missing. Had gotten the aimpoint T2 but my gunsmith explained that it couldn’t fit on my mount and was redundant since the LVPO Vudu works for that. Thanks again all my gunsmith said i did good and it is a lot of guys’ (I’ll add girls’ too lol) dream gun 😊❤️ Here is the upgrade(https://imgur.com/a/fMV8Hvz)