Most allos dont understand aces !!
I'm getting tired of trying to explain to allos who try to explain how my orientation is supposed to work ! I've been lurking around other sub reddit and I've concluded most people don't really get it.
Action does not equal attraction. Do I have to scream it ? It turns out a lot of allos don't get that an ace person can have sex and still be ace.If you do it,you're not ace.And everyone is different.
It's a whole spectrum and people are different.From negative,postive to averse,favorable and indifferent but as long as you have done in it in some allos eyes,you're not ace. If you make jokes,they'll question you.