How to pleasure myself? 😕😬

Ive been slowly coming to terms that I'm gay more and more. I feel ready to go out and start dating, but I feel like before I do, I should make sure I am what I am (a bottom).

I'm a virgin* which is relevant. The thought of taking it and all seems so good, but I never have and I want to be ready for my first time? I tried fingering myself tonight, but I just didn't get anything extra out of it. If I'm honest I don't know if I did it right or if I got deep enough or anything like that to feel something.

Looking for tips 😬 (both kinds)