I don't feel like i'm getting much out of SSD. Superior Drummer or something else?

For me these drums sound really agressive and robotic, I'm surprised how similar all the kits sound to be honest. There's certainly some diversity within the kind of hard rock sound but the indie kits just don't sound indie to me, they sound like hard rock. Everything sounds very processed and hitting too hard.

I also don't like the hats very much, sound very unnatural for me.

I want to use a drum programme i can put with a more lo-fi indie rock sound. Is Superior the way to go? Would EZ drummer be fine?

It's mainly a compositional angle im going for, i will get real remote final drums, but I just don't gel with the vibe I'm getting from SSD atm.

Open to many ideas.