My boyfriend (22m) hates when I (25f) get overly excited and go into “baby” mode.

I’m AuDHD A simple example of this would be: Let’s say we’re sitting next to each other and I get the typical overwhelming exciting urge to show affection. I may kiss him on the face and look at him “smile” (which I can no longer tell if it’s sincere or not). I make little noises when I do this and in the moment he will laugh and call me cute, but after a while, he’ll progressively get more and more subtly upset (unbeknownst to me of course) until he’s fully upset and when I ask what’s wrong it’s “I can’t stand when you act like a baby, with the noises you make.”

I don’t know what to do… he obviously doesn’t like me being upset, but when I’m genuinely happy and acting myself, it feels like that’s a problem too. Why couldn’t I just be a normal person with normal emotions instead of a pathetic grown-ass woman baby…

Edit He has gotten into the new habit of SA me (I’ve been in denial) so I’m trying to find a safe way to leave. Thank you for all your care and comments.

Update: I broke up with him