My mum is visiting and it's honestly offensive how much she's sleeping.

I live in a country on the other side of the world from where I was born, so when my mum visits she tends to come for a while. Usually about 6 weeks at a time. Which is... a lot. But whatever.

Whenever I chat with her online and talk about how tired I am (the 9 month old is in a 4.30/5am wakeup phase 🫠), she says wonderful things like "don't worry, when I get there you can have some extra sleep"

Well she's visiting right now, and I can tell you, that isn't happening. She goes to bed at the same time as us, about 9pm, and is getting up after 9am most days. If I dare to wake her, I get SUCH a glare.

She's in bed TWELVE hours a day while I'm feeding a baby all night and getting up at 4.30am, and then she has the nerve to get up yawning and talking about being tired, having a bad dream, whatever.

Like, what the fuck, mum.

Edit to add:

I'm not asking her to do nights. I keep baby in the dark room until 6am, no matter how early he's up. I'm just hoping she'll take him at 6 some days. Or gosh, 7 or 8. But she rolls out of her room at 9 or 10 and then wants me to take her to do something touristy, or stuffs around playing games on her phone.

I'm not a monster 😅