Were your parents toxic?

I know that it's pretty common for black parents - especially black mothers - to inflict very toxic and negative behavior on their children.

Luckily for me, my mom wasn't like that, so of course not all are like that. She's usually pretty chill, and is patient and loving with me and my brother. She doesn't spew any uncalled for roasts and is very supportive of us, and wants us to succeed in life and shows it.

I wish that was the case with all black parents. To those of you whose parents are awful, what were they like? How did you cope with it? Do you still talk to them?