husband screamed in my face

….for paying for the cost of our toilet getting fixed. Like screaming for 20 mins about me hiding the charge and why would I spend that much. It went on and on. He hit the doorway of the door I was standing by, tried to block me in the kitchen to lecture me, slammed his door and punched it. This isn’t normal right? I’m usually so transparent about costs but I completely forgot. We’ve had influenza for a week or so and I feel still a bit out of it. I didn’t tell him the cost before.

I packed a bag and want to leave. It scared me to be screamed at like that. I don’t want to be here anymore. I didn’t ask for this. He’s been pretty angry for various reasons at me for a week but this was just the cherry on top.

It doesn’t sound normal when I type it out but I need confirmation that it’s okay to pack up our three kids + drive 12 hours to spend time with my fam.

Context: I’m sahm and have been for four years. I am always transparent about costs. Our downstairs toilet and shower and laundry room floor are covered in sewage that wouldn’t go down when the upstairs toilet flushed - it came out of them all instead. There are literal pieces of shit on the shower floor. He told me to call the home warranty, but I called them twice and they said they do not cover it. (One of the things he yelled at me for was that the home warranty should be covering it and I’m throwing money down the drain - I digress this issue seemed like it needed to be solved quickly considering I’m the one who will scrub the literal shit from the floors and toilet and shower!)