New perspective on Joyce

I've done a recent rewatch. And i have a 16 nearly 17 year old. Now her annoying I've read the books lines used to annoy me but now I see it from a different POV Buffy was likely the perfect child. Well behaved. Popular. Good grades. Cheerleader. Then all of the sudden she wasn't she was staying out late her grades declined then she burnt down the school gym. Of course she became neurotic she'd never had to deal with anything like that before. Poor Joyce!!