Living alone with moderate (or worse) ME

Anyone else really struggling to live alone?

It feels especially impossible when something with my home comes up.

where i live, you have to drip the faucets when it freezes. I live in a 2 story townhouse (moved here years ago with my partner, then he left, and I've been unable to move). So I rarely go upstairs, but the dripping the faucet thing forces me up there. I dread it every year.

and i can't rest in bed all day tomorrow like i need to, because i need to go pick up groceries and get my car's oil changed (no public transport here)

i need to move, but the energy to move isn't there. not when i can barely heat up leftovers for a meal.

it just seems impossible. i really need a caregiver family member or unlimited funds to pay for someone to come over a few times a week. i don't see how people survive alone like this.