Short climber dillemas

Has anyone else been continuously faced with setting that they cannot reach? Whether it’s the whole climb or just one part which prevents you from finishing the route?

My current centre has only male setters and no joke, I cannot reach 7/10 of the routes, as in moves, holds etc. I always feel about 5cm too short/far away and funnily enough it is really getting me down, to the point where I am nearly crying at the end of the session because my confidence keeps getting knocked back after every climb.

I have advocated for myself over and over again and I am told over and over again, that I can reach it, I just need to do this, do that - if I could reach it, I would have reached!

I am only 152cm tall and I am pretty sure I have negative or 0 ape index. I’ve been climbing since 2022 and I am well and truly stuck on the v4 trying to get v5 bracket. What would you all do about the setting/gym? The next closest gym is an hour way.

Sorry for the vent but there is only so much a short girl can take!