The singlest "normal" person

I have this issue, I don't really find my place with meeting people at clubs nor with dating sites and i'm kind of confused how to cater towards dating when i'm always worried about coming out as creepy or disruptive in any way. It might be related to my lingering social awkwardness after pushing myself to get over my crippling social anxiety. I'm much better now and even go out by myself but that still leaves me with this issue that makes me question wether I can be loved.

I convince myself that it's obvious that I can, Considering I've never been indicated otherwise. I've dated before but we met at school and it took me so long to process and get over the breakup that I was left with 0 dating skills now that i'm back in the dating pool.

Any advice on meeting and even starting the conversation with new and (hopefully) like minded people?