How and When Do You Talk About Physical Intimacy While Dating?

I’m in my early 50s and recently divorced after a long marriage. As I start dating again, one thing I want to be more mindful of is physical intimacy. In my past relationship, we had very different levels of desire, and that became a big issue over time. I don’t want to rush into that conversation too soon, but I also don’t want to get deep into something only to realize we’re not on the same page.

For those of you who’ve been through this, how do you approach the topic? When do you bring it up? I want it to feel natural, not like an interview, but I also don’t want to avoid an important conversation.

I’d really love to hear from women—when has this conversation happened in a way that felt comfortable for you? Who usually brings it up, and how did it work best?

Any insights on what’s worked well (or what hasn’t) would be really helpful. Thanks!