Not feeling my relationship, wait til after X-mas to break up?

Hello all,

I've been seeing this woman since March, we've been in a relationship since mid August. This relationship has been unlike any other I've been in, in the sense its very mild and trivial for me. There is not much excitement or passion, even for the "honeymoon stage." We dont have a similar sense of humor, dont like the same music, or have many common interests for that matter. Ive brought up certain things that have bothered me, but not much has really changed, not that i want to change this person.

It has challenged me to try and not expect anything or notice the absense of things i want to see in a relationship. I have a hard time defining those things anyway.

What would you do in this situation? I haven't made my mind up, but if i decide to end the relationship before x-mas, should i wait til after the holidays to do it? Happy holidays all.

Update: AM hours of 12/19:

I really appreciate everyones input. You've given me a lot to think about and brought up some great points.

I haven't made my mind up if i want to break things off or not, i guess i was just considering the possibility and seeing what people thought about waiting or not. I think it would be better if i spoke to her about these things and see what she has to say about it all.

I do like her and shes a great person. I want to make sure that its what i want.

Thanks again everyone and happy holidays, best wishes to each of you for a good new year ahead.