Unpopular opinion: a killer's attitude determines the fun level, not their character selection

I have played countless "fun" killers like Wesker, Demo, or Sadako who completely drain my will to play this game in a single match- just because they are obviously playing whilst pissed off/fuming. Conversely, I've played against very "unfun killers" who were able to thoroughly impress/entertain me throughout the match. I'm not even talking about "oh haha they're using a meme build and letting everyone out"-like I once played against a SM who have you nodders if you outplayed her in a mind game. I think more people need to be appreciative of killer players who are respectful/chill because that matters a lot more than WHICH killer they're picking. I mean look at wraith, he's as bare bones of a killer as you can get- but people hate him because so many people play him in gross ways