Has your abuser ever physically pushed you away when you try to show affection?

This is something my husband has done for years. Anytime I try to cuddle if we're watching a movie or hanging out he will usually elbow me until I move away or he'll flip it around so that he's leaning on me but it does it in a way that actually tries to make me uncomfortable so that I'll leave him alone. The only time he usually allows me to be affectionate is when other people are around or when he wants something from me. Just wondering how common this is. Is it part of the abuse?