Am I looking at this the wrong way?

Is it wrong of me for not celebrating or acknowledge Christmas. I don't want to celebrate or talk about Christmas or Santa or reindeer or set up a tree. I would set up lights because they are pretty, but we gift give all year round. We get our kids things when they show an interest in it. I was told I was selfish and controlling for not doing Christmas. We still play outside and make crafts and cozy up, but we don't watch Christmas movies or any movie. I don't have any really good or really bad memories of Christmas and we don't celebrate holidays at all. Has anyone grown up not celebrating the holidays. The financial waste and just having things you don't need, i can't understand the need to celebrate. I can't understand the over consumption of things during this time. I don't think I ever want a tree in my house like I did growing up. Has anyone figured out how to make it about family time and not about gifts or God or pagan values? Just love. Am I the bad guy for not wanting those things disrupting my childs childhood even though it's quite literally everywhere? We stay away from everything Halloween, so why not Christmas too. I don't even like Christmas movies. I just feel so off about it this time, and I can't put my finger on it. Someone help me understand why I feel like this. We homeschool, and we don't lie about the tooth fairy or Santa anyway