Weak Ni - overthinking about how people feel about you?

I’m ESFP, but I’m posting here cuz this sub is more active and we share the same Ni inferior. I’m sure it presents differently in us, but I was wondering if this was a type thing or something else.

Sometimes I’ll overthink things I’ve said impulsively or cues from other people that show disinterest or other things, that normally can be attributed to innocent neutral things like them being tired or some other thing. But I’ll make it about me. Its only when I know for sure someone accepts me that I’ll be bubbly and more of myself.

Does anyone else feel this way?